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FUNdaMENTALs

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FUNdaMENTALs

Venn diagrams of romantic love;

For what?

Do we teach?

Do we learn?

Attachment styles:

Reaction,

Distraction,

Attraction,

Addiction…

Disconnect.

 

Love or fear?

There are only two paths…

Neurologically speaking in fact, through the Limbic.

All choices guided by one or the other:

Fuck,

Fight,

Freeze,

Flee…

Love? Trust? Be?

As the verb or the noun?

 

Pair bonds… cultural or chemical?

They are not the same…

Labels do not cement:

Attention,

Affection,

Intention,

Effluxion.

What is the choice?

Decision? Commitment?

Ah, but sweet limerence…

 

Fear of missing out,

Swipe left,

Swipe right,

Hedge your bets,

Invest no time, OR

Abstain,

Agree,

Move,

Stay…

Just connect.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Fuck you, Oxytocin.

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Fuck you, Oxytocin.

I’ve come to agree

with all the cynics

love is just a fairytale

a myth made up for children

 

like God and Heaven

all that’s true

is lust and obsession

our need for need

 

Emotions are worthless tools

used to get what we want

not necessarily what we need

what we got in trade for instinct

 

Love is a fleeting feeling that

people gave a name to rationalize

the way they use their bodies

the way they use each other

 

Sex is an exchange of energy

sometimes even a manipulation

just to steal power

that won’t be given freely

 

You try and displace the feeling

know all the while it’s not real

But push the thought out

follow the chemical path of “emotion”

 

Back to damn emotions

their pseudo-erotic tendencies

the manipulations we use on ourselves

how we set our sadistic selves up for pain

 

Over and over patterns are repeated

even after you become conscious of them

you allow yourself to believe again…

GOD DAMN TV